Swinging! Will My Spouse Be Interested?
By Gin, Sat Dec 10th

How does one talk his/her spouse into living the SwingingLifestyle?

More importantly, why would you want to?

Understanding that you desire to experience erotic, sexualencounters with others is quite apparent but as a couple both ofyou must desire the same.

Talking your spouse into sharing themselves as well as his/hersoul mate with others sexually is not the same as talking theminto pizza over chicken for dinner or a comedy over a dramaflick for entertainment.

Casually bring up the subject of swinging to test the waters.

If a positive response is given, continue the conversationsharing your desires and why you feel the lifestyle is somethingthat

you both can enjoy together.

If you receive a negative response, do not push the issue. Apessimistic conversation could end in confrontation and hurtfeelings.

Simply drop the subject and reinitiate it another time.

Be prepared to communicate informed. Don’t only paint a prettypicture, share all facets of the lifestyle with your spouse,good and bad.

This will indicate that you are not trying to talk them intothis new experience but that you are simply consideringembarking upon something new and different with them.

Never make the conversation about only your wants and desires,listen and hear what your spouse conveys as well.

Never cause an argument.

If you can’t communicate positively about possibly entering thelifestyle, you will not be able to live it successfully withoutpain and turmoil.

The Swinging Lifestyle can be such an awesome enhancement to ahealthy relationship.

But, if it is not fun and exciting as well as fulfilling to yourrelationship, why involve yourselves in it?

About the author:Gin is a syndicated Author and columnist of the lifestyle and isfeatured on sites around the world. For more informationpertaining to the lifestyle visit http://www.ginsopinion.com